Friend list privacy problem

Hello

So I've made 2 Friend lists on my Facebook account. One list is for "distant friend", the ones that I know but wouldn't like to know all of my whereabouts and things I do...

The other list is my girlfriend, we made the list so we could be on chat and appear offline to other Facebook friends at the time.

Now when I go to my Friends menu and click on "girlfriend" list, all I see is a blank page. When I go to her Facebook page, I can see everything. I can't remember the last time I got any of the news feeds on my Most Recent page.

When she goes to her Friends menu and clicks on "boyfriend" list, it's the same. She doesn't see any of my updates, but if she goes to my Facebook page she can see things I post.

What's weird to me is when I go to the "distant friends" list and click it, it shows me all the updates from the people on that list.

What seems to be the problem?

When you click on the "Girlfriend" list, to what URL are you taken? Copy the URL from your adress bar and paste it here.

Here it is

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Try any of these and see if any of them works.

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Nope, still a blank page with the first link, touch link displays Facebook without any styling and the mobile link can't load.

I have a testing Facebook account, I've added my real self there and it shows all my status updates and all...

I even tried to put the Privacy settings on "Friends only", without exceptions for the family list. No avail.

Try going to Account > Edit Friends > Girlfriend > Delete list. Then create another list named with a different name

Deleted it, made a new list with a new name, doesn't show anything in Chrome, tried Firefox nothing, tried Safari nothing.

Blank.

I've deleted the list, so did my girlfriend.

Still, any status update I make doesn't show up on her Most Recent feed. Other people comment on it and like it, so I would assume they see it in theirs Most Recent feed.

But now even with the "girlfriend" list deleted...she doesn't see my updates.

How can I fix this?

PS - when she makes a status update, I see it in my Most Recent feed.

So the only thing now is why doesn't she see my updates in her Recent feed.